Archive for the ‘Pregnancy And Parenting’ Category

Pregnancy does not cloud the brain, says Australian study

Friday, October 10th, 2008

Pregnancy has long been blamed for addling women’s minds but new work by Australian researchers finds this idea may be nothing more than an old wives’ tale.

A study by the Australian National University’s centre for mental health research found that there is no evidence to suggest that impending motherhood affects a woman’s cognitive ability.

The research is based on analysis of interviews with 2,500 women aged between 20 and 24 first undertaken in 1999 and again later in 2003 and 2007.

It found that the 76 women who were pregnant during the second or third interviews scored no differently on logic and memory tests than previously.

“And there were no differences between them and control women,” Professor Helen Christensen, who led the research, told AFP.

“It really leaves the question open as to why (pregnant) women think they have poor memories when the best evidence we have is that they don’t.”

Christensen said while it was possible the tests were unable to pick up subtle changes in the brain, it seemed more likely that women blamed pregnancy for minor lapses because it was foremost in their mind at the time.

“It makes it very easy to attribute what might be just normal lapses in memory to pregnancy,” she said.

The professor said research on rodents had found that mother rats had an improved capacity to do more than one task, navigated mazes more efficiently and suffered less anxiety and fear.

“There’s enormous changes in the rat brain during pregnancy so you might actually expect that women perform better during pregnancy than when they’re not pregnant,” Christensen said.

Bullying Top Concern of Parents With Overweight Child

Sunday, September 14th, 2008

Bullying is the top “health” concern among parents with overweight and obese children, according to a new report.

Parents of these children, aged 6 to 13, also are much more likely than parents of children at a healthy weight to call bullying a top health issue for kids, according to a report released Monday by the University of Michigan C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health.

“We found that parents with overweight or obese children actually view bullying as a greater problem than childhood obesity,” Dr. Matthew M. Davis, director of the National Poll on Children’s Health, said in a university news release. “Since bullying is known to be a problem for children with increased weight, bullying prevention programs will need to be mindful of obesity as a potential trigger for bullying behavior and of parents concerns surrounding this issue.”

Overall, parents don’t take childhood obesity lightly, ranking it No. 1 is among health concern for kids in the National Poll on Children’s Health. Still, only two-thirds of parents actually enforce such limits with their children on junk food and time spent in front of a TV or computer screen, the poll found. Still, many parents are talking with their children about having healthier diets and increasing their physical activity, which Davis said is an important first step in setting the stage for a healthier lifestyle.

Nearly two in five of the families polled included one or more overweight or obese child between the ages of 6 and 13. The poll also showed that children who were obese or overweight were almost twice as likely to have an obese parent as healthy weight children.

“In many families, obesity is a two-generation phenomenon among parents and their children. This trend could be the result of genetics or behaviors such as eating habits and physical activity that are shared among parents and their children,” said Davis, an associate professor of general pediatrics and internal medicine at the U-M Medical School.

10 Year Olds …. Attitude

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008


hey I have a 10 year old boy and for the last few months has been testing us big time ! Just wondering what is the “Normal ” behaviour or some experiences 10 yr olds are like !! He has attitude, everything is about him :) School work has become poor.
He has 2 sisters and brother so its not a only child thing, but he is the eldest. He is a great kid and has good potential but just lately doesnt care ! He will not advise me of anything going on just says I dunno !!

 

omg I’m so glad that someone asked this because I think it sounds very normal I have a 10 yr old boy who hates anything that doesn’t work by a controller.Since his 10th birthday I have become his #1 enemy he has gotten to the point where I wish I believed in spanking, unfortunately he is the same height as I am so discipline is very difficult. I think that those of us out there who have 10 yr olds can put alot of the attitude on hormone’s then. I guess what I’m trying to remember is to keep a bridge between us so that he can cross over and let me know what goes on in his life.I spend alot of time biting my tongue so that he doesn’t feel like I’m criticizing him. I always repeat I LOVE YOU to him till he says it back, most of the time he smiles and walks away with pink cheeks.So my best advice is to open a line and try to keep it open even when you don’t want to hear what has to be said.

Help, I have to fight with my baby during feeding time!?

Thursday, July 24th, 2008


My 3 month old baby has a hearty appetite but we have to “fight” with her everytime we feed her.
When she nursing, she easily distract , so she always pulling the nipple look around and then nurse again, on and on.
When she’s on bottle, she moves so much, look around even move her head in a way that you could imagine.
She’s not screaming or in pain, but she just move around so much.
So since she move her head, her arm, her leg and her body so much, she end up spit up!
How to deal with this?

 

Yep, just be patient….it’s a stage that they go through and it WILL get better! When my daughter would struggle with me, I just put her down and eventually she’d get hungry enough to focus on the task at hand. Don’t worry, she won’t starve!

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My 4 month old is like that easily distracted so what i do is leave off feeding for awhile and then when she is relaxed again i continue to feed her.It calls for patience and like what was said before they are curious about their surroundings and it is part of their developement so it is nothing to worry about.

Women who did not breastfeed after birth..?

Thursday, July 3rd, 2008


How long did it take for you to get a period after your regular bleeding after delivery?

 

If you are not nursing the rule of thumb is basically “your cycles could resume at any time.”

You can watch for signs of returning fertility like clear, stretchy cervical mucus….or your first period. Most women don’t ovulate before their first period, but it can happen, which means you could conceive before ever having a bleeding episode.

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I wasn’t able to nurse my daughter due to her being born with a cleft lip/palate. My period returned at around 5 months pp. (I nursed my son til he was 18mo old, my period returned at around 6 months pp.)

Remember, everyone is different. Some women don’t see their periods again until a year after childbirth. As far as nursing and not getting a period, that varies as well. Some who nurse get their period back only after weaning, and others get it sooner than later (as I did).

I’m 7 months pregnant, baby moves alot is this normal?

Friday, June 6th, 2008

i’m 7 mnths pregnant with the 3rd child and i work in a call center where im sitting down for 5 hours a day,5 days a week.is this healthy for my baby? with my other pregnancies i didnt have any problems but with this one i’ve noticed that my baby moves ALOT!!!, like every minute every hour could it be because of me sitting down alot? i hardly walk because i get tired very easily now. my feet get swollen alot. i cant sleep because the baby is constantly moving. with my two girls i could sleep like a baby because they hardly move, what can i do to stop the swelling and for at least to have a decent night sleep?

This is very normal, it mean you baby is doing great inside you and you have nothing to worry about. You baby is very active. my second one was like that too and now he is 22 months and a handful but very fun to be around. All i can tell you about the sleep is….. your baby is just probably giving you a warning of how it is going to be like when it arrives. LOL

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There may be no miracle cure for swelling like another person said but I found something close. This may sound funny but the best thing I found for my swollen feet was to go swimming. My feet where so swollen that it felt like I was walking on a bruise. It hurt so bad. I read something, somewhere, that swimming would help - the cool water combined with the pressure of the water helps get the fluid back into circulation and reduces swelling - it worked like a charm for me. I would go to the pool maybe once a week and that was all it took

Shop Boutiques for One of a Kind Maternity Clothes

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

If you love style then you will want to look stylish while you are pregnant, too. The easiest way to do this is to shop a boutique maternity store. A boutique pregnancy store will have a wide variety of clothes for you to choose from that will not only be beautiful but that will also flatter your pregnancy figure. You should keep in mind that many stores sell maternity clothing that look good. However, if you want to wear maternity clothes that not everyone else is wearing then you will want to shop at specialty boutiques. Keep in mind that your clothes will look beautiful but they will not be affordable. So, you will need to keep your budget open for these beautiful clothes. For some people who are on a tight budget this is not an option. So, for these individuals it is recommended to buy one or two outfits from a specialty boutique they can wear to special events. Then, the other clothes can be average priced items that look good, too, but are more affordable. You can look beautiful and stylish during your pregnancy no matter your budget.

Should parents continue to finance their children after the children are 18?

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Maybe assist them, but not totally finance everything. There are too many negative side effects of doing that. **

There were a lot of children in my family, so we had to finance everything ourselves. I was working full time at age 15 just to buy clothing and shampoo. It was tough, but I don’t regret it, it gave me character. **

I think that things are definately different for children now… 100 years ago, 11 year old boys were running a farm — or at least doing a good share of the work. Now, I am happy if I can get my 11 year old son to pick up his socks and lower the toilet seat. Our expectaions for children have changed, lowered. As a result, they are living up to what we expect. **

I think one of the most important things we need to teach children is personal responsibilty. Children need to grow into adults that accept responsibilty for their actions. If they are always saying, “I am this way because of my circumstance” or “I am not this way because I wasn’t ever given a fair shot” they will never succeed. They need to learn that they are in charge of their own destiny. THey decide how their life will turn out. Events and circumstances may steer them one way or the other, but ultimately, they decide what and who they are going to become. If they can grasp this, then they can go on to provide for their families, emotionally and financially. They need to learn that success comes from how we treat others, not how much money we make. **